How to reconnec?!

[MrsN022015]

I have been with my husband for 9.5 years. Started living together 5 years ago. Have always had a brilliant relationship, sex, communication, trust, love and fun. He is hard working and a brilliant dad. Our daughter turned 1 yesterday and everything came to a head. Our relationship has been pretty much sex less since our daughter was born. Due to c section I ended up co sleeping and breastfeeding my daughter. Husband will not sleep in the same bed as daughter, he is terrified of rolling over onto her. So has slept on the sofa for 12 months. Which I feel terrible about. Daughter is a crap sleeper and I go to bed at the same time as her 6.15 every night. Basically we have lost our communication our sex life and everything else that goes with a loving marriage. How do we get that back? I am hoping to get our daughter into a cot asap. We still love each other and don't want to give up. Please help. Please be kind

I think your problems will be sorted soon, quite naturally. She will still want to come to be with you which is fine and normal but in the very near future, she'll settle in a cot.

xx

xx for husband for being the sort of considerate person he should be. Kudos to him.

I presume you don't have another bedroom but hope sofa is comfortable. An alternative would be to have a fold down bed next to yours and when your daughter drops off to sleep, you join him.

Sounds like fun!