Some of you may remember about 2 weeks ago I posted about how when my PIL look after my Dds they drink and have an aggressive dog in the room with them. I stood my ground this Friday and told Dp that they weren't going down anymore until they sort it out. Well he took the cowards way out and said to her that they weren't going down because we're trying to get a routine established with Dd2 and can't do it if she goes down there because it all goes out the window (This is actually true and is another reason why I don't want them going down there) She started shouting saying that that wasn't the real reason at all, that she saw the way I looked at her last time and think she's drunk (I know she's drunk, I can see the quarter of a bottle of wine/cider by her feet!)and because of the dog. Dp said "maybe" (bloddy wimp), and she ran off crying to Fil. He then said that if I'm going to be like that then he wants me out of his house!!! (We rent one of his properties from him) I'm so shocked I was shaking when Dp told me. I was absolutely gutted that they're making so much out of me trying to be a good mum to my girls!! It's not as if I said that they can never see them again is it?? It's important to me that the girls have a good relationship with their grandparents so I would never say that. Really stressed now as I hate confrontation and am dreading seeing them even though Dp said they're ok about it now. Oh, and when Dp phoned and said that he'd bring them down between 5.15 and 8.30 (meaning she's not going to be drunk then and as long as the dog is only in the room when Dd2 is asleep in the front room) and she said "Well I don't want them now" They're their grandchildren, not something they can send back when they're bored or whatever!!!