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hj15 · 03/12/2018 11:07

My partner broke up with me last night because I wasn't happy he'd brought all of his drunk friends back to our house without telling me, at 10pm on a Sunday night.

And since the "dumping", I've genuinely lost count of how many times he has called me a c*nt.

Mainly because I am not pleading with him to take me back. Now then, if someone was calling you a see you next Tuesday more times than you could count, how likely would it be that you'd be upset about the break up?!Angry

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percheron67 · 03/12/2018 11:19

Goodness! I think you are well rid of him. If someone called me that, even once, they would be out of the door.

beenandgoneandbackagain · 03/12/2018 11:28

The drunk mates I could probably forgive, but if he dumped you because you were not happy about it, which I wouldn't be at the time either, then you are well rid. His unapologetic behaviour since then just reinforces what a dick he is. You are doing the right thing by not accepting this behaviour.

hj15 · 03/12/2018 12:25

Thank you, it's not the first time but it will certainly be the last!! I was so tired because he kept me awake all Saturday night with his drunken idioticness so you can imagine how angry I was last night! And to feel that uncomfortable in my own home is ridiculous.

He seems completely dumbfounded that I haven't apologised today. He even said "you don't have to beg for me back if you promise to be less moody".
Envy

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Cawfee · 03/12/2018 14:18

He really said that? 😱
Why was he drinking sat and sun? Is that the norm for him? He sounds like an absolute delight. I hope you don’t start begging for him back or taking any blame for this at all! He’s the see you next tuesday

SexNotJenga · 03/12/2018 14:20

Please, for the love of God, don't get back together with him.

DarklyDreamingDexter · 03/12/2018 23:52

Haha...."you don't have to beg me!"
Block, delete, move on!

Bananalanacake · 04/12/2018 08:04

How did he keep you awake on Saturday? We're his mates being loud. Hope he moves out and leaves you alone.

Singlenotsingle · 04/12/2018 08:13

So you say "I'm not begging you for anything! I've been dumped, I stay dumped. When are you going?"

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