We’ve been friends for about 7 years, finally got together 3 years ago and dated for 8 months or so. Then he got a job at the other end of the country and we split up. Ever since though he’s been coming back every few months or so and we sleep together. He asked me how I felt about things and I said that I was dating other guys and that I was ok with a FWB arrangement.
But secretly I want him back. The last time we slept together was a few months ago and I really thought that we were beginning to get back together. Then a few weeks later he rang me to say he didn’t want me to hear it from anyone else but that he had met someone who he wants to pursue a relationship with.
I’m absolutely devastated. I told him I felt sad because I still had feelings for him but I wished him the best. He hasn’t been in touch at all since and has disappeared from social media although we are still friends on Facebook so I think he must have stopped me from being able to see his status.
My heart tells me it’s not over and that in time he’ll get over this crush and realise I’m the one.
We were so good together. I’ve never experienced the kind of love we had and he said he felt the same. We did have problems though. My ex is a nutter and threatened to knock his lights out when he discovered we were an item. That really shook him up I think.
But we got past it and if only he hadn’t moved we’d still be together and he wouldn’t have met this other woman.
Will he come back?