Dumped & Unconsolable

[Snowman123]

Need some wise words. Or an arse kicking. Or probably both.

I had been dating someone for the last 3 months, when the said they weren't ready for a relationship and ended things. He said he was mixed up and didn't know what he wanted. I'd had lots of mixed messages from him, he definitely gave me the impression we were going to keep seeing each other, and didn't see it coming to be honest.

I'm finding it so hard to accept its over and move on. It's so difficult to meet anyone nice, and I feel like with him I had. I'm so disappointed.

I get the feeling he's just gone "Next" while i've spent the last few weeks teary and down.

Please give me your words of wisdom.......

Oh OP. There is no dodging Heartbreak, it truly sucks, a lot! He clearly didn't share his thought up to the day it happened otherwise you'd have seen it coming so you wouldn't want someone who fails to communicate would you? Also, maybe the relationship didn't feel right to him? And rather than have an awkward conversation, he bailed? We always look inward when something like this happens and rightly so, to improve ourselves but sometimes it's about them? Holding your hand, you'll get through this like we all do

Heartbreak it tough, I've been in a similar situation. It is really hard to meet a nice guy that you get on with and have a mutual attraction so when this happenes it is very disheartening but think of it this way, he's a a$$ for leading you on and you deserve better than some wishy washy time waster who doesn't know his own mind. He might be thinking 'Next' but don't let that get you down because you should be thinking good riddans, better to find out now than 3 years down the line. It's hard to value yourself when you feel down but that's how you move on and find someone new.

Stay positive and be kind to yourself. You will find a person who appreciate you.