To prefer one son in law to my other son in law?

[limpoporiverafrica]

Is it normal to have preferences?

I get along much better with my son's husband than I do my daughter's husband. They are weirdly all exactly the same age, bar my daughter who is two years older, and they all wed in the same year.

Since the off start, my son's husband has been so much nicer to me, hardworking, smart, and has achieved a lot for himself and my son.

My daughter's husband is a nice enough chap, just a bit boring. Interested in football, doesn't work very hard, and lives off his mum still.

Is this normal to prefer one to the other? I hope it isn't obvious.

Are there some foods you prefer to others?
Could you be equally good friends with anyone?
What about seasons, are summer and winter the same to you?
You sound like you don’t like football much, so that should give you a clue that yes, preferences are normal

Of course it's normal to prefer one over the other, they're not your children, they're people your children choose to be with

Yes, normal - but whatever you do, never let any of them know it.