We've recently moved into a bigger nicer house and found out we are expecting our first child, he has been excellent in terms of support for me when I've felt like shit. He goes through phases where he treats me like a princess and buys stuff for me but he just doesn't do anything around the house. For some reason during my pregnancy I cannot stand the smell of our kitchen and therefore have asked him if he can do the washing up and cleaning and most of the cooking, he agreed. Yet hardly does the washing up (it just gets left as I'm struggling so much), washing sits in the machine for ages until I take it out and sort it, he just leaves rubbish everywhere in the living room and basically lives on takeaways because he apparently can't cook. I've offered to help with the cooking especially now I'm better but still nothing. I went into the cupboard to find out of date mouldy food which the smell made me throw up (he promised he'd sort it out but I'm still waiting) and he never goes shopping (except if it means he can have his snacks) and just leaves his dirty clothes all over the house but if I wash I get told not to touch his stuff. he works long hours, whereas I've cut my hours back recently because I'm so worn out with the pregnancy and keeps telling me he will help out tomorrow or on his next day off but spends all day either on his Xbox or asleep. I fear he's going to be like this when the baby is here and I'm gonna have to do everything (which I admit I have let get bad again because I'm worn out) and look after baby. My family have been really good and have come round and helped us unpacked and tidy the house once because I could barely move off the sofa during my first trimester.
Sorry it's long I needed a rant... I just don't know what to do anymore