I dont even know what I have to get over because there was no official relationship.
Been seeing each other since March on and off he has asked twice for us to be gf/bf then got cold feet on both occasions!! We then did a fwb thing but that makes me feel crap. Discovered the other night that we are both on tinder and that upset me that he was because he told me he ‘doesn’t do dating’ whereas I do want to find someone I can be serious with. So I said to him you obv do want to find someone or you wouldn’t be OLD he said he just sees it as a version of social media and is being nosey.
He doesn’t care about me I know he doesn’t I can feel it but I just can’t let him go and I hate myself for it. I have walked away easily from serious relationships for not being treated properly have they affected my self esteem so much that I’m thinking this is all I’m good for???
He said to me this week that he doesn’t know if he can deal with a relationship just yet after his last two ended badly but he has apparently never felt this way so early on for someone