Dating this guy I adore for 2 months. First time we slept together he couldn't get hard & that was that (nerves I think and he is a 23 yr old virgin).
So I invite him for round 2 and he does get hard this time thankfully. It is my first time with an uncircumcised penis & I just don't seem to know what to do with it to get him to orgasm. He showed me what to do with his hand & the grip is very firm, almost uncomfortably for my arm, & he says he uses a 'specific' technique. In the end I asked him to show me what he likes but he gave up after masturbating for several minutes. He tells me he can orgasm when alone.
Now not to blow my trumpet but I know I'm pretty great at BJs, so I think this is the golden ticket as I could be firm if that's what he lies. But a minute or 2 after beginning he asks if we can talk. He tells me he was sexually abused by a classmate as a very young child & that he only 'remembered' this in therapy this year. So that's that method out of the window!
Now he treats me like a queen in bed, but I feel guilty that I'm the only one being satisfied. He says it will get better with time, but will it? If I can't pleasure him with a simple touch.
Aside from that I adore him and this was the first weekend we spent both Fri & Sat together. We are very affectionate in and out of bed. But I know full well sex is important and he has obviously gone through a hard time.