Ok so I’m 48, divorced and I think I’m quite streetwise. I joined Match fairly recently for a second time (first time was a bit of a disaster) and started chatting to a nice guy. We met up on Thursday and for once(!) there was an instant attraction between us. We sat on a sofa in a country pub and talked about everything; it was effortless. He kissed me and we just couldn’t stop looking at each other - this has never happened before. At the end of the night, we kissed goodbye, we both said we wanted to see each other again and off we went in our separate cars. He rang me when he got home saying he thought I was a lovely person and couldn’t wait to see me again. He messaged me yesterday a few times throughout the day (he was at the races with clients) and he’d got a bit drunk. He later messaged saying he wish he could see me now etc - it was funny. Then today, distinctly cold. Admittedly, he had a massive hangover but the few times I’ve logged into Match he’s been online the whole time. I asked if we were still on for Monday and he said yes that would be good, but that’s only because I prompted him. I’m getting a bad vibe already. Just read what I’ve written here and I sound like a psycho! But this is what I’m feeling. Do you think I’m over-reacting?