Hi, so I started a new job and we are due to have our Christmas party soon. I’m having a dilema because partners are invited. My dh never invites me to social events - for example he is out two Fridays in a row over Christmas with friends and I am not invited and also work parties I’m not invited to either and this is a continuous thing - it doesn’t bother me like it used to - but now I have a party to go to he wants to come. I’d rather go and have some fun on my own, like he seems to. Problem is he knows he’s invited but I jus feel he should say ‘go on your on as I don’t expect you to come out with me’. What do you guys think? Ds also can’t be left and I would prefer dh look after him than get a babysitter but that is what he will suggest.