Hi first post but need help! Married 24 years, two girls 16 and 12. Several issues at play here, firstly eldest daughter, mature for her age, very smart and doing well at school also needs a lot of my time driving her and her friends/ boyfriend around which I don’t mind, we live in a rural area no transport. I am keen to make sure she is safe and communicating with me so will pick her up whatever time. DH doesn’t like this, but this is not his main gripe. He wants sex all the time everyday but I have gone off it, obliging to keep him happy. Anyway over the last few months he has become increasingly unsettled firstly saying I do nothing criticising what I do or don’t do ( my parents both died in the last 2 years and as an only child have stuff all over the place but that’s another story!). He has threatened to leave on almost a weekly basis goes out in the car and then comes back because it’s too cold ! Now moved into small spare room and made noises about finding a flat but doesn’t want to move into a bed sit. Then asks for sex as says he’s not a monk and not got anyone else. Oh and thinks I have someone , I don’t. So confused I get used to the idea of him going and he says he still loves me , probably to get sex ! Guess I have been giving in to keep him happy for years! So to summarise we disagree on parenting our daughter, he clashes badly with her if they do talk, and he says I don’t fancy him as I don’t want sex and keeps threatening to leave . What can I do, no family and only couple of friends who say he is a twat! Anybody had similar?