Hi,
Met a guy back in August and we have been speaking at least 4/5 times a week. He knows I like him and he seems to feel somehow the same but doesn’t seem to be ready for a relationship.
Anyway, this dragged on for a while and he never brought up the topic of ‘us’ on a relationship level. I met a guy through a friend who was interested from day 1. We spoke for a week and I though ‘hmm, maybe I can start of something with this guy as he’s clearly interested and the other doesn’t seem to be.’
I contacted guy 1 and we met up and I explained that he hasn’t made a move and he said let’s give it more time but then I said I’m planning on dating guy 2 out of frustration. He didn’t seem to believe me at first but showed him our texts and calls and he said ‘if he treats you right then don’t wait for me to give you my permission, you’re free to do as you wish.’
I didn’t hear back from him for about a week and in all fairness, thought oh our friendship is also over and proceeded with guy 2. Guy 2 knew about my ‘confussed feelings’ and everything that had happened.
But then he contacted me again and just like before when we first met, we started talking again (5-6 times a week) and text throughout the day. I’ve explained to guy 2 that I’m really confused with my feelings and need a break.
I just don’t understand guy 1 - does he have feelings genuinly or not? What are his true intentions?
Haha! He’s 100% straight before anyone says he’s gay.