Without the drip feed. Not getting on with oh of 23 yrs. not married. Have 5 yrs left on mortgage.3 adult kids.
After an argument tonight I know where I stand.
Had issues with oh not supporting me with DD prison sentence and other things.
So tonight, huge argument, home truths came out. Harsh both sides , apparently he wishes I had never got pregnant, he was stupid to get me pregnant . I am just a hired home help, and nanny. Apparently I do fuck all round the house. 😂😂😂😂 I work full time. Just got an apprenticeship. Do all house work and diy . I'm lucky if he washes a cup.
So already got my paperwork sorted. What he pays, what I pay. Rent round here is daft and a 1 bedflat are very rare. Also registered with homechoice, but expect to be low banding. There are other more deserving families than me.
I've told him that he can now take over everything, running of the house, sorting of DD appointments and dealing with probation and ss. He can't though , as he works full time.
Oh , icing on the cake. I went to work the night his dad died. He forgets I worked nights while nursing his dad through his last days & sorted funeral after. Men do have short memories don't they.
Am I jumping the gun? Or should I just leave? I've been with him since I was 18. I'm mentally worn out and fed up of doing everything myself