We'd gone to another town for a day out on Sunday because they had an event on. Literally 20 mins of being there he told our son to shut up because he was crying he wanted to go on another ride. He's only 2 1/2. I told him not to tell him to shut up and he said 'whatever'. I said so much for making it up to me (after he was a dick 2 days prior) and he said I could fuck off if I thought he was making it up to me now. I didn't want anything from him except to be able to go and have a nice day out. I just felt sad tbh and didn't see the point in staying there and being upset so we went home. Didn't talk to me on the way home (1 hour) except to ask if I was hungry. Got home about 5. He barely spoke to me at home, tbh I mostly just ignored him because I was pissed off with him. He did bring me tea and then came back and took pots away, but didn't try and talk.
I just don't feel like talking to him. Yesterday he had written a note on the fridge saying he was sorry he was rude etc. He'd washed the pots and put a wash on. He also text me in the morning asking what time i was going out, and text me in the afternoon to ask if i was eating out that night (he was in the house with me).
He text me this morning asking if I'm ready to make amends now as it's gone on long enough.
He hasn't tried to talk to me in person. I haven't replied to his messages. He isn't usually a dick but it's been 3 times this past week and it's too much. I don't really know what to do now. Sure if he tries to speak to me about it i will but he normally tries to talk via message or just tries to make me laugh/make me tea. I have no idea who's being the dick by dragging it out I just know i feel really sad about the whole situation.