hi everyone,
im new to this site. id really like some advice or opinions about a guy i know whom i like, but im not sure if his behaviour is red flags or just bizarre. i am a survivor of bad domestic violence and ive not been involved with any men for two years now. im a single mumwith two young sons.
This man i know as his daughter is in my sons class at school, but i dont see him often as he is a sargent in the army so isnt there all the time. He is younger than me and a very good looking guy, which he knows! Anyway, for about a year now, he has been dropping hints that he finds me attractive, always through cryptic bloody messages on facebook. He turned up at school dressed in his army uniform, hoping i would go to bed with him clearly, but i ignored him as in all honesty im still very cautious of men and im not like that. plus hes very arrogant. he got the hump as i wanted to go for a drink first or something, but he wanted his way. so we had an argument and fell out. he then started stalking my facebook and i did get involved with another nice guy briefly back in august and as soon as i did that.....boom...he started seeing a woman. i got to the point where i felt a bit uncomfortable with his facebook stalking so i blocked him. The day i blocked him, my friend messaged me and said hes changed his profile pic to him and his gf. i said fine as i was waiting for that. he changed it back the next day! i still see this guy occassionaly at school and i didnt want any bad feeling, so i unblocked him and thought nothing of it. he then started to make crappy comments on his profile about my artwork. im an artist. i ignored it. i blocked him again and the same day i blocked him again, he changed his profile pic to another photo of him with his new gf. i thought hang on this is a bit odd now. again it was changed back two days later. fastforward to yesterday......id finally had enough and thought, yes i like this man physically, but not personality wise so i thought right, cut him off for good. so, i completely removed him from my facebook, phone etc..... 4 hours later, my friend once again said hes changed it again to him and her!..... what is going on here??
apparently his new gf is going to his mums for christmas etc so hes clearly into her. why is he doing this?
if i see him at school he walks right behind me too, but will never speak.
any thoughts. thanks x