If you cut off your parent for abuse reasons and then found out they were sick would you contact them? I was abused by a parent once when i was young. For years ot was rugswept until i was a teen and i drunkenly told my other parent about it. My sibling also acused the abusive parent of abuse but being young i was led to believe it was all lies. My one time abuse was rug swept because my parents were just divorced and ap (abusive parent) was sad and confused apparently. And it didnt match up to the horrible things my sibbling was accusing ap of. Anyway sibling is now in contact with ap. I cut off contact when my 1st child was a month old because oalong with motherhood sprouted a spine and i felt that ap shouldnt have gotten away with what they did. They would never admit it. Lie to everyone. Made out i was crazy and was all ppd on social media. I sent them a letter to say until such times as you admit and apologize i will not speak to you. and no matter what u will never see my children. That was 7 years ago and iv heard nothing expcept some lies online about what a great grandparent they are and how we are all close. I let them have thier lies asthey have nothing else and i know the truth. Abuse was documented with police etc when i was a teen. Nothing ever arose except some mention of a registry.
Now iv received a message from sibbling who is in contact with ap that ap have been diagnosed..... i couldnt open it yet. Its just a facebook message. I jsut dont know if it says they are terminal or what. I cant get the balls to open it.