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Doesn’t add up

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Somethingwentwrong · 17/11/2018 04:57

Emotions all over the place
When I started trying to write this post id gone back to wanting him back. Now I don’t.

From her point of view. Much older richer boyfriend. Her ex boss at work. He’s handsome. Tho 20 years older. She is very plain. Been together 7months. His wife was pregnant at the start but he had just moved out so...
He pops in to see his wife and kids four evenings a week.

7months on... Wouldn’t you want more..?

As I type a truth as just dawned. She has already got her more hasnt she. He moved out. I will never know the truth.

It doesn’t matter.
He has less emotional intelligence than a snail. How can that possibly be someone I want back in my life. What a fool to have ever loved him. I hope the love fades.

OP posts:
Somethingwentwrong · 17/11/2018 05:02

I think I am getting there
I am very protective of my kids
He has hurt them so bad
I wouldn’t let anyone get away with hurting my children as badly as he has and still have any positive feeling towards them.

When he got together with her exactly doesn’t matter. Whether they fall apart soon or not doesn’t matter. (Tho it does sound like the weirdest relationship!!)

OP posts:
MaryJenson · 17/11/2018 06:23

Somethingwentwrong 💐
Keep posting, get it all out xxx

Others will come along and start spouting the usual MN cliches but this is a process you need to go through. You will come out the other side 💐

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