Hi, sadly my relationship of 20 years (married 15 years) is completely dead and we are now going through a divorce. There has been no major issues, except being completely ignored and unloved for most of our married life. Husband has never supported me when needed, and my needs and wants were hardly met. I have supported him through his ambitions and when needed. I have tried to resolve our issues, we tried marriage counselling but there was no effort at all from his part. I am not sure if he ever truly loved me tbh. I want to be loved and love back also to the fullest so feel it's time to move on in our lives. We have both agreed to divorce and needs want to remain amicable. We have 2 kids under 10 years old. We want to keep divorce simple and sort finances outside court to minimise costs.
Regarding maintenance, husband advises by law he only needs to contribute £150/m per child and nothing else. Is this correct? He's willing to contribute up to max £500/m in total, nothing else. He wants to have kids 50/50. He wants to sell our house so we both have funds to help us buy a house each, we are both looking for new homes within the same area so kids can still attend the same school. He said we should not touch each other's personal individual savings/pensions/inheritance. Is this acceptable and fair? Am i entitled to more?