His girlfriend obviously took him back

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Posted last week about finding out guy I had been dating actually had a girlfriend already, he's begged me right up to the last minute until he realised that I was Definitely done with him, couldn't forgive his lies and immediately changed calling me nasty names etc. Well as she asked I gave her the evidence etc.

So Tonight I had to drive pass his house, had no choice about this and saw that her car was outside just made me feel real shitty, I don't want him I was only with him few months so definitely not in love with him but seeing her there has upset me, it's like he's got away with what he's done Scott free and I'm the one who's ended up looking bad in all this

I think you had a lucky escape, if she wants to stay with someone who lies to her and cheats on her, that's her choice.

You should be feeling relieved to have him out of your life.

You’ve dodged a bullet. You’re now free to go and meet someone kind and faithful. She has no doubt compromised her own morals to stay with someone she’ll never be able to completely trust.

He won't get away scot free forever. If he has cheated once, he will do it again, either because something is wrong in his relationship and he hasn't the moral courage to face it decently, or because he is by nature a cheat. His girlfriend is the one you should pity, for being foolish enough to take him back.

I can't see that anyone assessing this situation objectively would think you were the one who looked bad. Be glad that you have got rid of this unfaithful idiot of a man.

It's crap isn't it?
People say oh you should feel sorry for her, well she is the one that will be left always wondering. She will be the one that has forgiven him and made compromises. She's the daft one basically. It could have been a one off with you and he's learned his lesson. But chances are, it wasn't. Just like locally it wasn't and he's back with the gf, she's compromised because well he loves her so that's all that matters and in the meantime, he's one the phone to the bit on the side a couple of times a week begging to see her, withholding his number and even using different numbers to contact her lol.

Moral of the story. You are better off without him. He cheated. She's daft enough and there's a chance that even if he remained with you, you would eventually be cheated on. In the meantime you are free and away from the drama to find someone who treats you with respect. And no, you won't be the one looking bad because everyone will know it's him that did all this, even the gf deep down will know it's all down to him,

Why on earth would you give a single fuck as to what he's up to? You won the lottery getting him out of your life. Rejoice and move on.

Plus, you can’t assume they’ve made up and that’s why she’s parked out front.

She could be dismembering him with his own tools, or have him drugged and tied by his scrotum to the ceiling fan.

If you’re going to use your imagination, at least make it work for you, I say.

You clearly have higher self esteem.

Maybe she was picking up her stuff and the car was there for that reason.

If she's gone back with him their relationship is going to be a constant merry-go-round of arguing about you, accusations of another affair, breaking up, back together etc.

If anyone got away scot free it's you.

I hear you. Their relationship is flawed and will go tits up soon. They might be going through that passionate makeup phase reconnecting and in lurv but what they're actually doing is both clinging to a slow sinking ship. All very predictable and desperate.

seriously? most women stay when men cheat on them. its not unusual at all.

Just feel sorry for her. She will always be looking over her shoulder for who else he is cheating on her with. And he will cheat again. Be thankfuk you weren't a mug.

She's either there to make his life hell, or her own. Either way he is not winning happiness.

But you can.