Hi I'm fairly new to this, I have been with my current partner nearly 3years. I have 4 children from a previous relationship , I was married to the guy. Things just weren't to be. Anyways fast forward to this relationship if you can call it that. Things started great , he was working , I was working, things were great and so was our sex life. For the past year he has not worked , nor is he looking for work. I have took on extra work in the mornings as a cleaner to get extra money. My mum is a great help, she gets the kids to school every morning for me. I just don't know what to do, he lies in bed all day and I mean all day watching tv. Takes no interest in the children , and none in me. I don't get compliments anymore , more the type of compliments like you have good qualifications and you take on an extra job as a cleaner , you should feel so low, his words. I have to pay for everything. He doesn't worry about a thing. Also he refuses sex and has done for about 6 months . He gets jealous if I speak to neighbour's or say they are helping me up with the food shop as they must see me struggling weekly up to the 3rd floor with a weeks shopping for 5 people. He ignores me also. I know he isn't cheating as he is never on his phone or social media. He doesn't go out. I try to talk to him about stuff and he blows up in my face. I'm stuck, is this my life . I just don't know what else I can do. He gets his cigarettes when he asks and whatever else . He goes mad when my ex husband and I get together to attend school meetings etc . Please any advice would be appreciated 