My husband left me and our 2 kids

[Babycakes12345]

Nearly 3 weeks ago, my husband left me and our 2 kids said he didn't love me anymore he has only felt like this for 6 weeks, am really confused as he still hasn't taken all his stuff, and then he said to a friend he didn't know what he felt, I have just stopped messaging him the last few days as I want him back so much, our daughter is 1 in 3 weeks, we have only been married since July this please help I love him so much cry everyday I just want him to come home.

Does that mean it's okay to walk out on your kids though?

Exactly, hope he's doing his fair share of parenting, doesn't sound like it, another useless git that thinks it's ok to walk out on his responsibilities.

So men are supposed to stay in abussive relationships and women aren't.

I never hit him, they was other problems but never laid a finger on him, he only sees his kids 5 hours a week

Who said men should stay in abusive relationships?

5 hours a week, he sounds great.

You've given him hell for years ... That's more than enough reason to leave.

You need to focus on yourself and your anger. No man would want to be in that kind of relationship.

Sorry op but if he’s been enduring it so for long maybe he just had enough. Focus on yourself for now.

@BishBoshBashBop - nope - as is clearly demonstrated in my 2nd paragraph!

What do you mean when you say "given him hell for years"?

If you mean you have treated him badly, I'm not sure what you expect? Him to stay and put up with it?

Eventually people cross a line in being treated like shit and they go. Good on them tbh.

They is no one else I have access to all social media sites etc

That is a red flag in how controlling you may be. Do you think it is normal to have access to all his social media accounts?

I am so, so sorry to hear that, op. My first thought was, "What a rat", but he could be having some sort of crisis, depressed. So wait and see, bless you.

I’m a bit confused about what your relationship has been like. In what ways have you been giving him hell? Why do you have access to all his social media? I think if he’s endured a lot of abuse from you then I think it was right for him to leave - although it may not have been what he wanted to do or what he imagined when he got married. I think he should step up and see the children but I wonder if there’s another reason thats making difficult? Does he have somewhere he can take them for example?

Sounds like he's had enough and left. He should be maintaining more contact with the children though. I hope you really are receiving help, because tbh, it sounds like you really need it. Please think of the impact of YOUR behavior is having on your children.