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Unreasonable to flirt with male friends?

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bigcalm55 · 10/11/2018 19:48

Literally just what the title says. I have 5 male friends, one is gay so it just isn't even a thing. 2 are in relationships so again it's not even there and the other 2 I do casually flirt with in text/conversation. Is this unreasonable?

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Gettingbackonmyfeet · 11/11/2018 12:03

I would find it quite childish to be honest if I was one of the friends partners...if it was my DP I suspect it would be a bit of a joke between us , I admit this isn't pleasant of us but it would rather be at your expense

Grown women generally are adult enough to be able to form friendships without flirtation

However no I wouldn't consider it cheating as a partner I'd just find you a bit silly

pumpastrotter · 12/11/2018 11:38

If they're single then it's fine, it depends on the flirting - fluttering your eyelashes is different to sexting them, that's not just being flirty. If you were flirting with the 2 in relationships then that's not okay, that would be massively disrespectful.

@inmyshoos that's disgusting that you would allow him to speak to you like that and your response is encouraging him. Pretty sure his wife wouldn't be happy he is telling an ex-shag how hot they still are and hem replying about the 'good times' they had.

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