Going to try and keep this short.
I was seeing someone at the beginning of the year, found out he had a gf of 2 years. I spoke to her and told her everything. He filled my head with shit as they do and I believed him, I carried on seeing him it's pathetic but I felt like I needed him, it was literally like an addiction. I learnt he was just bullshitting me about ending the relationship etc so I cut it off with him so many times, he would talk me around and we'd be literally going round in circles, his gf found out we'd still been seeing eachother a few times since and she don't seem bothered.
I haven't seen him in over a month but he's still ringing me daily on withheld (he's blocked on everything) if I don't answer he will simply keep ringing just to ask to see me every day. He turned up unannounced a few months back early in the morning banging at my door till I gave in and answered. I've told him repeatedly I'm over it all now and not interested in seeing him again, he's turned up this morning I didn't let him in but he was asking to see me again, I told him no. The last time I seen him before today, he again turned up st night unannounced saying he had something important to tell me, half an hour later his gf is at my front door, he hides the keys and my phone and refuses to go outside!
His gf wants me to ring her every time I hear of him or if he turns up but o really cannot be arsed with the drama an he doesn't give a shit if she knows anyway. I really like him but I'm not allowing him to use me and I feel bad on his gf! I honestly don't know what it will take for him to leave me alone, he says it's because he loves me etc but if he really did he wouldn't put me in this situation.