My husband and I opened a new pack of condoms this week. We used 2. He left the packet on the bedside table the other night and the next day, when my toddler tried to grab them, I popped them under the pillow.
When my husband came home, we were sitting on the bed talking and he found them there. He had a bit of a joke and asked what I’d been up to. Then he took the condoms out of the packet and counted them.
Turns out there is one unaccounted for.
He then asked me again what I’d been up to and asked me where the missing one was. Needless to say, I was pretty annoyed at that and told him he had better find it. I also said he is much more likely to be up to no good than me (he has cheated on every partner he’s been with except for me).
He started looking everywhere and told me to look but I said that since I had only touched the packet today, he’s the one more likely to have lost it, so he needs to find it!!
Things are now really weird. I have trust issues to start with and finding out about his past cheating history last year has made that worse.
Could there be a reasonable explanation for the missing condom??
He said why on earth would he have counted them out if he was up to no good. I stated that he could have done that to avoid me finding out, to make it seem less dodgy...
Plus his accusing me of cheating (which I most definitely haven’t and wouldn’t) seems like deflection...
So I’m asking if this is dodgy or am I being silly?
He never hides his ph but works in a place where affairs are quite common...