DP and I are very different animals. He's also completely different to all my previous partners. They were always whip-smart, charismatic, philosophy-type 'feelers', whereas he's very mechanical, logical, and process-oriented.
I've been thinking about the direction my life has gone recently – we're talking about the possibility of TTC in the next few years – and I can't shake this weird feeling in the back of my head when I think about DP and us potentially becoming parents together that this isn't who I thought it would be
I love him to the ends of the earth and we're great together, but I wondered how many of you wound up with the kind of person you imagined you'd wind up with, and how many were a kind of surprise "Oh, wow, I never imagined it would be someone like you"?