Am interested to hear people’s opinion on an ex of mine who I have finally managed to get over.
A few of the things he would do:
- Write me poetry and even a song one day but act as if he hated me the next.
- Refused to apologise for ANYTHING. Absolutely everything was my fault and anything he did that I disagreed with and brought up in a perfectly civil way he would go to great lengths to think of a time I did something exactly the same and turn it around on me.
- If we were texting and I was busy doing something and couldn’t reply straight away he would make sure and leave it as long as possible to reply to the next message I sent as revenge.
- Everything was on his terms ... when he saw me, when we spoke on the phone, when we texted etc.
- Would be too busy to see me but then would decide we were having an elaborate surprise day out and turn up without even telling me in advance.
Do you think he is ill?