Exp is deliberately bringing DC back late when we have a court order
It's happening regularly and usually means that DC misses his swim lesson, which exp is well aware of. He never gets in touch to say he'll be late, or why he'll be late, or to apologise afterwards. He's doing it to get to me
Last weekend was the icing on the cake when he picked up DC from school when it was not his weekend!!! Meaning that because I had sealed a weekend with him, eco had 3 CONSECUTIVE weekends! I work mon-fri 9-5. Exp quit his job as an accountant when CMS got in touch with him (after threatening me he would seek residency in order to avoid paying any child support).
After getting the fright of my life when dc wasn't at school when I got there to collect, I called Exp explaining that this is clearly not his weekend and to bring dc to me now, exp told me I'm stupid, that I can't understand an interlocutor and that I need to go see a lawyer who can explain it to me (he is gaslighting)
He won't admit he's playing games, he won't admit he's in the wrong, he bullies me at any opportunity and I've had enough. Only a sheriff can sort him out but in the meantime I would like to cut contact until he agrees he won't take DC or if school without my prior knowledge or consent
We were at court a few years ago when he would persistently refused to bring DC back to me (he lives a 45 min drive away). But he was cheeky to the sheriff, sacked about 7 lawyers as they weren't telling him what he wanted to hear then eventually decided to represent himself
It would only be for approximately 2 weeks he wouldn't see him (and goes on extravagant holidays without DC for longer than that anyway!)