I left my ex in feb off this year and we have 4 children. It was an emotional abusive relationship and its only now i can admit that.
Since feb kids have went too his on a Tues and Sat and out the blue a few weeks back he wants to change his days to recharge his batteries (his words) and i said no the days stay the same, he is now dictating too me telling me these changes are happening and that was the end off the matter again his words.
After a 12 hour shift last night the kids came home to mine and informed me that their dad says oh it is your mum who wants to spend time with yous at weekends and it was me who wants too change days. This is all lies and i have the text messages to prove it but feel hes twisting stuff round to make it look like its me.
I feel i cant win against him and still feel hes trying to control me even though he has moved on with someone else and her kids.
He also keeps saying too me i encourage and respect you to seek legal advice.
Any advice on how too deal with him?