For some reason, I cannot stand my partner 90% of the time. He is constantly commenting on me and my life, that I should get a job, that i need to get out the house, that I need to be happier. Please bare in mind he doesnt have a job, or any money, he doesnt have a phone, a bank account, a drivers licence etc.
I feel anxious when im around him, like REALLY anxious. I act so moody and im always gritting my teeth and holding my breath. Im constantly having to reassure him there's no one else. I was so depressed the other day i broke down in tears, and he thought it was because I had cheated on him! He goes through my phone all the time, reads my messages, checks my call log, my snapchat, my internet history, and will ask 'why do you delete your internet history?' 'Why do you delete messages from your phone?' He makes me feel like im actually cheating on him when Im not!!
He suggests we do things and i never want to do them with him. I didnt feel like going out this evening to the fireworks but I said he can take our daughter as she would like it. He thinks this is a personal attack. He frustrates me so much to the point I could cry. If im not doing exactly what he wants, then he's nasty. The other morning I didnt want to go to spend the day at his mothers house, and I get called vile and disgusting. When im going through a low few days where I don't want to do anything or see anyone, he can't be bothered with me. I just hate being around him. What should I do....?