I’ve recently found out my husband has had an affair with one of our friends. At the time our marriage was at a major low we both hated each other and made it pretty obvioius we did. No excuse for an affair but I decided to try again. He’s since gone on anti depressants and is seeing a therapist and he’s much better in himself and is trying more to be around me and the kids. But now I’m spending more time with him I’m just finding him so dull and boring! Granted I think I’m a bit of a boring person too so that probably doesn’t help but there’s just no attempt at him making a conversation with me and when I try with him he’s always distracted on his phone or laptop or something. I just think I deserve better to be honest but at the same time I do love him and don’t want a broken marriage for the sake of my boys!