Hi...I am writing this partly to sort my thoughts out. Blazing row last night started as I had left a few things draining by the sink and work surfaces were not entirely clean.
Had been out trick or treating with DS 10, then cooked dinner, loaded and emptied dishwasher. Then sat down.
So....it was eff this and eff that, followed by all you think about is effing food, that's why you are so effing fat. (Am in my 55s and only just in healthy BMI, so could do with loosing a few pounds).
Slept in spare room and asked for an apology for language this morning. No.
Then I can here DS being spoken to, and DP comes back down and says "DS would rather live with me" 😯
He's just gone out, after asking me if I want him to leave. I said no. It just all seems so complicated.
I did think of telling school as I'm worried about how he involves DS so much, always wanting him to take sides. He's quite a sensitive soul.
DP has gone from saying he will take DS, to saying he will leave and have no contact til he is 18! Has told DS both scenarios, it must be so confusing for him.
No support network here, so feel a bit lost 