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Maddison75 · 31/10/2018 01:34

About a month ago social workers came in to my house told my husband he had to leave as allegations had been made about him , the social worker told me they couldn’t tell me anything as it was confidential ,they left me gob smacked , then the police came and took my laptop , my husbands tablet and phone , they questioned me . My 19 year old daughter had made sexual alligations about my husband . But they wouldn’t tell me anything more ,they said my husband could tell me if he wanted to but they Couldn’t ‘ .i had no one to help me at all no one for advice ,everyone having a go at me . I had enough I couldn’t take anymore I wanted help . I know it was wrong but I took a overdose but some how got saved . My ex husband will not give my children back and social workers are helping to give him custody , pls help me some one

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MrMagnoliasBoot · 31/10/2018 01:37

Sorry for what you are going through, it's truly awful. Is the ex husband that has got custody the same one who got arrested?

Maddison75 · 31/10/2018 01:40

No the husband is my first husband with my kids , my second husband got alligagions , I’m no longer with husband 2

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whynot93 · 31/10/2018 06:05

Wow it must be serious if the social worker decided to remove the children and the police have confiscated laptops and phones. I suspect your H is most likely to be involved in something quite serious and they have enough evidence already to prove this. Have you asked him? What his behaviour been like? Thank goodness the children are save and being cared for! Someone must be able to give you some answers? Has he been charged with anything, I'd imagine he's at least been questioned.

Thingsdogetbetter · 31/10/2018 07:40

Is your second husband still living with you? I presume not, so I'm surprised ss have removed the children when he no longer has contact. Are you under doctor's care for your mh after your od? This certainly needs to be your first step. Then cab or woman's aid with regards custody.

But why haven't you asked your daughter? Surely you want to support her in what must be hell for her?

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