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Time to leave

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RoxyAnn · 30/10/2018 21:08

My partner no longer wants to to have any physical contact and sleeps in another room to me. I need to get out of this situation but can't afford to leave as I only work part time. Have no deposit for a new place of my own. Hate living like this !!

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Unsure123123 · 31/10/2018 04:01

I'm bumping for you Roxy as I know there will be others who've been there.

Unsure123123 · 31/10/2018 04:02

I'm bumping for you Roxy as I know there will be others who've been there.

whynot93 · 31/10/2018 05:59

Sorry it seems like you need to make a plan of some sort as soon as possible. Have you both discussed going your separate ways? I appreciate financially it's going to be tough on you but what's the alternative. If you are able to communicate together maybe you could help each other out to move on.

Cheerfulasever · 31/10/2018 06:14

This is an awful situation to be in. You cannot stay purely because of finances.
Do you have a friend or relative that can put you up whilst you save? Or one that can give you a loan?
Even if you have to seriously struggle financially now, in the long run- it will be a much better decision to have left.

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