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Losing my nerve

2 replies

Fretful · 28/10/2018 20:03

Ugh, sorry in advance if you read this, as I'm being pathetic.

Okay, so I've posted a few times now and had come to the conclusion my husband is abusive. Despite me asking him to leave (he refuses), and me trying to tell him I remain unhappy, he continues to act as if nothing is wrong and, indeed , as if nothing has happened over the last few weeks.

I have an appointment with a solicitor tomorrow afternoon and I am very much feeling my nerves draining away. What if my husband really is trying to change? What if he is right and I have made too much of his outbursts and poor treatment of me and the children?

I will keep my appointment, but I am terrified!

No need to reply, just setting it out here to try and clear my head!

OP posts:
SayNoToCarrots · 28/10/2018 20:05

They never change, not really.

JessieLemon · 28/10/2018 20:53

Whether he changes or not moving forward, it’ll never change how he acted in the past, and if that was bad enough for you to want to end the relationship you have every right to do so.

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