Background I have an illness always exhausted because of it and In lots of pain I have good days and bad days. Have been in new house just under 6 months. Partner moved in with one box and a few clothes basically I moved in with 23 years of bits and stuff. I also started a new job at the same time as moving and spent the first few months just moving boxes from room to room have finally started chucking out anything or giving what I can away. House is being re done next year so we have no real storage for the time being I have a rail of clothes in utility room two a storage unit of hair stuff that I need did a hair course. I also struggle with not making more mess always have done I’m very clumsy very unorganised but partner new I’m dyspraxic and lived with me prior to getting a house. The house to me is tidy he dosnt like me having boxes under the bed or clothes in the utility room thinks if there’s no space it should be chucked out. I have one rail of clothes up stairs and downstairs but next year getting a whole built in wardrobe with double the space so I’m not chucking any more stuff out if I don’t needn’t too may look messy now but next year I will have space to put everything. Have brought some storage but don’t want to spend to much as need to save for next year. Yesterday I was ill home from work but managed to find some time to hoover the kitchen. I was going to do the dining room later so left hoover out sat down in bed with some pain meds and felll asleep he had a huge go at me for leaving it out calling me lazy for not putting it away. Today I hoovered the dining room put some laundry on and then went into town to pick up dinner. Left hoover out to do the bedroom before bed and he had another go at me calling me stupid. He then brought up again that I always have an excuse for everything and I cause him stress. I’ve said that I’m in pain every day and exhausted but he dosnt seem to care he thinks that by now everything should be perfect. I’ve been off work so much because of my condition I’m stressed and worried about work I come home and just want to sleep but I know he’s going to ask me why I haven’t done any laundry or put my stuff away from the sofa. He tells me 5 year olds don’t act like this. I know I was a bit of a hoarder but everything i don’t need or want hasn’t gone house is clean. I do have more items than space at the moment tiny kitchen and lots of baking and cooking stuff. But I’m so ill constantly sometimes I can’t move we keep getting into arguments that I’m making him ill and stressed. I always end up crying hyperventilating and not feeling like I can breath and he just leaves me or walks away when I ask for help sorry for the long rant I’m just sat on the sofa in pain knowing that I can’t have a bath with out him asking why this is all out or that’s not put away