Some guys hah,....
I've met him 6 months after my divorce which was terrible and messy. I was still depressed. So when I've met him he was like my rock, hope for new life new familly, new love. We should be happily ever after. We are both from abroad ( but from different countries) I've never met his relatives, he never met mine (I actually had no familly at all). We never really lived together as I lived with my roomates and he with his in other part of Egland. He was working thru computer. My work was near my place that's why all of the time together we stayed in my room/ in my place. He was divorced as well with messy divorce.
One day he asked if we can build familly together, real good familly I was scared of marriage (after this what I've went thru with my ex) so we decided build familly without papers. When I got pregnant he was happy, then had to go to is country get some savings for our future and then he become sick and is "sick" for last 4 years. Meanwhile I've found out some woman on fb put their old pic together ( after I questioned him he admitt it is his wife and they are separated but no prove for that) During 4 years he never gave our child his name , never helped in raising him. He came to Uk 2 times for few weeks and briefly saw his son, thats it, never stayed with us (God only knows where e stayed). We had thousands arguments cause of broken trust and many lies he told me. I was even homeless with our child and there was no help. Now he used our last argument to say he has had enough and doesnt care anymore, doesnt want future with us etc. For now I am just down ,sad. I,ve turned off my phone, took few days off work. Don't understand why people do this to others. How can they just want familly and then dissapear. I am not young anymore he wasn't young either I thought that people in certaing age are kid of responsible. I know I will finish my life alone, as I won't be able to trust anyone anymore. One part of me still hopes he will finaly decide to be with us but that's just hope. Its so hard to be alone with child without no one. To mange work, childcare, doctors alone. And there is no hope it will become better. I just had to tell it someone as I have no one to talk about it.