I've been seeing someone for about a month, it's his birthday in a couple of weeks, then mine a week after. Things are moving along quite quickly and he's already let slip that he's booked a weekend away for my birthday weekend with an activity and meal out, plus presents, one of which is possibly expensive. We have planned in advance as needed to confirm a child-free weekend and sort cover.
He's been really sweet and says he wants to spoil me, but am a bit concerned now that I can't afford to go all out for his birthday. I'm going to take him out for a meal then have a few gift ideas, none really expensive. We both have kids so can't make plans for any other weekend, I will be spending his actual birthday evening with him (after work and staying over).
Am I overthinking this, or is there anything else I can do for his birthday (without spending too much as I'm on more of a tight budget!) Any ideas gratefully welcomed!