So this is kinda long to explain but I need advice badly I have been in a 4 year relationship with a guy and at first things were good between us no problems I slowly started to notice as time went on he became controlling about a year ago things just got really bad he's stopped me seeing family by making threats he says nasty horrible things to me the hard thing as well is I get on very well with his mum and family I try to tell them what's he's doing to me they always stick by him he always tells them lies about me to make them think I'm the bad person he tells me it's all me I'm to blame for him treating me so badly he's done nothing wrong hes called me worst names I can think of told me il never be wanted im useless just don't know why he's doing this to me why bus family think it's ok feeling very alone.