Accidentally pregnant, do I tell him?

[GP76]

I am recently separated and had sex with a friend unexpectedly and am now pregnant, after one time, at 42. It’s ridulous that this has happened and I can’t understand why neither of us uses protection. Do I tell him? I need to get an abortion. 3 kids already. Looming divorce. He and I are not that close with no plans to be in a relationship, although if I am honest I do like him and when I have recovered from my failed marriage would love to date him.

If you are having an abortion, there's no need to tell him in my opinion

If you’re definitely going to terminate, I don’t see how it would benefit either of you to tell him.

He only needs to know IF you decide you want him to know.
The only reason you may want to tell him is for support BUT that doesn't give him the choice or the right to tell you what to do.
I work with so many woman who really struggle over a TOP because of men 'telling' them what to do!