I've just been told of this forum so looking for any help and advice. I originally posted in divorce and seperation and was advised to put it here. My other half around October last year informed me that the love had gone. We since have been trying to work on our marriage via counselling. I have never felt that they really wanted it but feel they participated to say that they tried. I do everything in the house unless I ask them specific tasks. I do everything for our child. The week that should have been our 13th wedding anniversary I got told that they see no way forward and seperation is the only option. They love our home and dont want to leave and I can't get the mortgage in my name as I don't earn enough so need to move out. I think I've put up with a hell of a lot during our marriage, including "mid life crisis", supporting their hobbies which are expensive, managing debt they brought to the marriage not excluding the friends that were like a 3rd person in our marriage. Allowing them to live a life they want to present. Now it seems it was all for nothing, all my hopes and dreams have been torn up in front of my eyes. We have set a date to separate and tell our child which is very close. They want to wait 2 years then get a no fault divorce. I initially hoped it would be so that we could work on it but it appears that they can't live with the blame. I'm leaving everything behind but our child and they want a split custody. I want this for the child as my parents divorced at the same age and I have a very poor relationship with one of them. I'm trying to sort a financial settlement so I can look at renting another property for me and our child for when she lives with me. To top it all off they have now come to me with dates they are going out and our daughter will need to come to me if it's the others night! I'm so angry and upset. I cry all the time. I suffer badly with mental heath and anxiety. I know I've not been the easiest person at times to live with. They made me a promise and now it's broke. Can anyone suggest where I can get some help. I have limited funds but also can't get any assistance as I earn too much. I have been to citizens advice and they told me to find a solicitor. I've rang and 10 min is all I can get free. I think I'm going to have to do the legal myself! Any advice or sign posting would be happily received. Thanks in advance