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Worried brainwashing the kids

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CornflakeGin · 26/10/2018 07:07

I separated from my husband in Jan/Feb this year. The kids officially live with their dad but stay with me in equal shares. I'm with my new partner in a flat 10 minutes away..

Things have been difficult but look to have been settling down until 48hrs ago when out of the blue my ex husband girlfriend contacted me very concerned about the kids. She's left him but really worried he is brainwashing the kids against me to get at me. She has seen it first hand. I've suspected he was doing this but nothing proven and he is ok to my face.

Now then what do I do?! My new partner is behind me completely to have the kids with us full time. Having the kids I'm not worried but never been through this and frankly I'm really worried about what will happen.

How do I stand legally etc? How to show he is doing this?

OP posts:
Northernparent68 · 26/10/2018 09:37

It’s possibile the ex girlfriend is stirring up trouble, if the children spend half of their time with you the brainwashing is nt happening or is happening but ineffective.

springydaff · 26/10/2018 09:47

Yes it is possible the ex is stirring up trouble - but then again it may be true. You can't risk not doing anything.

I'd call 111 to get some advice from the domestic abuse section. Also call your local Womens Aid to get some advice.

You need to move quickly on this op Flowers

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