In the past I had relationships with other females and told myself it was just ‘a phase.’ This is what I was told by family at the time. I married had children and my relationship ended for several reasons a few years back. I’ve not had any interest in any other men even though several people have tried to set me up. I am attracted to women and have no idea where to start now I’ve finally admitted to myself it wasn’t a phase. I have no friends who are gay or lesbian and don’t know how to meet people. I’m in my mid thirties and really need to start living my life for me. I’ve used a different profile for the past few years but created a new one.