Feeling like a virgin!

[Crossroad]

Hi all,

Firstly, yes, I know that you cannot reclaim your V-card no matter how long it's been!

Okay, I've met thsi amazing guy, he's absolutely wonderful and I am very attracted to him. We've kissed and touched and generally become quite turned on.
However, I've only had sex with one person, my ex of almost a decade.
I'm currently feeling like a scared teenager! I want to take the next step with this guy, but wow am I terrified!
Not only has it been a while, but I'm worried of the feelings I would develop if I took the plunge. He has been lovely the whole time, taking it at my pace, asking if I'm okay with what we're doing.
I want to get over this year....help!

Do what comes naturally

Hi - I'm in exactly the same boat! Except I haven't had sex for 10 years... Have met the most incredible man. We're taking it very slowly - I've been really open with him that I want to take the plunge but need to take my time and I can't commit to when that might be right now. We've done kissing, touching, cuddles - my body definitely wants to go further but my mind hasn't caught up yet.

It's so terrifying... I think it's just time - and if they're prepared to wait then they're the right person.

Good luck

Hi I’m in the same boat too and decided to take the plunge 😂 get back on that bike girl! I could’ve done with a warning though from my boyfriend that he’s particularly well endowed mind 😂 it was a bit of a shock after my ex husband. I’m actually enjoying a fairly varied sex life now - he can’t keep his hands off me and it’s nice to wake up and go to sleep with a message telling me how beautiful he thinks I am - love the early days of a relationship! 😀

Thanks all! I think I'll jist have to put on my big girl pants and be brave, it's just scary to know that I'll be effectively doubling the number of partners!