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Mental Abuse off my Brother

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Msbluebozooka · 23/10/2018 14:49

This is a very sad situation and I'm at my wits end Im shaking just writing this , so please bare with me.To cut a long story short my Dad passed away 2 years ago and he was in business with my eldest brother
there is 6 of us altogether 5 boys and me the only girl.We suspect my eldest brother fraud his Will because Mum didn't know anything about it.
Mum and I and my sane 3 elder brothers challenged him about it he told us in a very threatening manner that he didn't what to speak to any of us again and didn't need to explain himself, said mum was left enough ( which isn't the issue ) and we haven't heard from him since only through a solicitor which we had to employ for peace of mind.
Mums solicitor came to the conclusion it was an internet Will and 99% fraudulent he explained if she pursues this he could go to prison and it would open a can of worms. She decided not to we are all appalled by this mum has been an angel al her life looked after dad and her 6 children its not been easy started this business when we where all babies and she still plods on.
Fortunately we are very close everyday she is at mine every Sunday we have roast she is 83 and needs looking after. we have decided to put our money together and get an annexe at the side of a new house Ive moved into , this is where the other problem starts and i need some advice.
My youngest brother who we all agree needs sectioning keeps harassing me and mum calling me a gold digger and worse going on and on about how we owe him his inheritance how mum has been a bad parent etc etc I can go on but its horrible. Ive blocked his number a few times but I worry about him and so does mum so i unblock and try and my up but the abuse starts again. We can't take this anymore he has just rang and called us disguising for not pursuing the case and we are all in on something with my eldest which is unthinkable and I know he knows this he's crazy and needs a short sharp shock please give me some advise

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fantasmasgoria1 · 23/10/2018 16:18

I have not seen my own brother for a year. He has schizophrenia and since mum died 10 years ago he has practically treated me like his mum. Every time we met up he would ask for money and when in hospital I would exhaust myself visiting and attending his ward rounds etc . He isn't nasty but I totally get where you are coming from. You have to leave him to it. My brother is in supported living and is supported by his mental health team so I have left them to it now. I'm thinking of contacting him again but the thought of be harassed for money etc puts me off. For your own health leave him to his own devices.

Msbluebozooka · 23/10/2018 18:57

Thank you so much for your support , I try and try and explain the whole situation but its like going round in circles he wont listen and my other siblings say we need to report him I just can't see this helping I will just have to block his number.

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