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How to move on?

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Veganmamaa · 23/10/2018 14:46

How to move on from my ex of three years. We have a toddler together and that makes it harder. I suffer with severe anxiety but since he’s left I’ve stayed at my mums for a few nights (still here) my anxiety is so so bad I’m so nervous to being on my own at home with my anxiety and loneliness. He’s being so mean and I have every right to be mad at him, but I just can’t I miss him so so much. HELP!!!!

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confuseddotcom2018 · 23/10/2018 17:38

How long have you been separated? I feel your pain because it's happened to me too . I thought I would never get over it but I think I have which too forever. There is no magic trick only time . Try to distract yourself as much as you can and let yourself feel the pain. If you have to cry because you miss him don't fight it , it will help let it all out and you will feel better after .
I hope this helps 

Veganmamaa · 23/10/2018 22:03

@confuseddotcom2018 we've been separated since Thursday. It's just so hard I'm constantly crying and panicking. I suffer quite bad anyway. I hope it doesn't take too long to get from this stage to the anger stage?? Do you know? Thank you for your comment.

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confuseddotcom2018 · 23/10/2018 23:03

It's still very fresh and the anger is normal .At this stage I was very angry and cried too and pregnant. Working helped as I did long hours and it gave me little time to think or miss my ex but it took me a long time to stop loving him .It's just time and it also depends on the person some take longer than others. It's very hard but you will get through it . If I could , so can you 

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