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Is this normal?

5 replies

Ann0yed · 23/10/2018 10:44

Seriously cause it’s starting to piss me off now, without a doubt near enough every fucking day, my partner will go ‘oh yeah been to your boyfriends’ ‘boyfriend this, boyfriend that’ and just start talking absolute nonsense about NOTHING. He thinks he is fucking hilarious. I was out in a shopping centre that has a boy’s name in the name months ago now, and said that’s where I was, ever since he thinks it’s funny to go on about ‘my’ boyfriend and say the name of the shopping centre ???!!!!
I have enough to deal with everyday college, work, assignments, a toddler, pregnant weeks off my due date, housework, finances but it is all about HIM, how I’m so disgusted by him how I hate him, he knows allllll about how I feel apparently, he must sit there everyday making this shit up. He thinks him saying all this stuff and going on the way he does is fucking normal and I can’t cope, I am seriously going to have a break down listening to it EVERY DAY. I have just said stop it now cause I can’t cope all got was I can’t cope either… all he goes on about is his needs how we don’t have sex every fucking day how long it has been, that's his main concern, I lost my sex drive when I fell pregnant with my first DC, I feel huge, been through so many body changes and hormonal changes over the passed 3 years, but yet its him him him. I feel like bursting out in tears right now, this is ridiculous way to live and I do not know what to say or do

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Eatmycheese · 23/10/2018 10:45

Jesus you have children with this person?
No of course it isn't normal he sounds completely fucked up.

LucyMorningStar · 23/10/2018 11:08

I had a similar issue. One day I just started playing along. When he asked if I've been to see my boyfriend I just said that I have, one of many that I havr. His face was a picture! Whenever it comes up I just agree, tell him I got several boyfriends, he does a lot less now.

hellsbellsmelons · 23/10/2018 12:34

You don't HAVE to listen to it.
What is your housing situation?
I'd be making plans to get away from him.
He's sounds like absolute cock of the highest order.
Why are you putting up with this shit?
You have enough to deal with.
It's like water torture.
If you want to understand him a bit more then get the book, Why does he do that? By Lundy Bancroft.
You'll find the abusive prick in there!

CandyCreeper · 23/10/2018 14:15

not normal

DevilsAdvocados · 23/10/2018 15:55

He thinks he is fucking hilarious. I was out in a shopping centre that has a boy’s name in the name months ago now, and said that’s where I was, ever since he thinks it’s funny to go on about ‘my’ boyfriend and say the name of the shopping centre ???!!!!

So let me get this straight? You went to a shopping centre with a male name - like say "the Peter Shopping Centre".

He has been saying to you "Been to see Peter lately". "How is your bf Peter?"

Is that it?

If so, it sounds mildly irritating if done repeatedly but not really something worthing getting into a rage about?

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