Hello,
I thought I would share about my life story and relationship, not sure where to begin...
I met this guy when I was 21 yrs old and he was 19 yrs older than me, during that time I was just breaking up with my ex boyfriend. We were working together, he was very nice to me and we got attractive to each other, He said they were getting divorced as their relationship was not working, they had a boy together. I was so naive I trusted him. He said his wife was leaving to live in an another country and so she left. He said they were separated and will be filling for divorce. as I trusted him I didn't questioned him I felt crazy, unconditional love with him. Just to point out I was planning to go abroad to pursue my further study during that time, a few months later my study arrangement was finalised and l also had to leave the country. He wasn't sad rather happy and said he would regularly visit me and probably start a family as soon as I finished my study. So I thought may be he needed some time to sort things out, he used to visit me regularly and I was even more in love with him and used to miss him a lot, every time I asked him if he sorted out the divorce with his ex and he was always saying that chapter was closed, she would never come back, if I would merry him and I said Yes, and got married the country I was studying. So we got married and after four years we got a baby girl, I am in a foreign country without my own family, we got the baby and after four days came home from the hospital, after two days he said he needed to travel for very urgent matter without any proper explanations, I thought may be it was urgent and let him go, I was at home with 6days old c-section baby on my own, at night when the baby was nonstop crying and didn't know what to do as I was so much in pain myself. I just rang him for his support and guess who answered the phone, his ex in his house, only I know how I felt at that point, suffered, cried and felt soooo betrayed, so confused. He just said oh she is back as we registered a company together while we were together and she was the majority shareholder and she wanted her share back, until I gave her the share she would not move, he got a big loan for that company, if she complained to the bank that she was not responsible for that loan then he would have returned the loan and he wasn't in position to return the loan, she found out the company was doing well and wanted the share. My husband said he didn't want to give her the share and he was working very hard, she didn't deserve it. I am now 40yrs old with two kids, that lady never left, my husband never gave her share, only kept saying they don't have any relationships, she is there for money. I believed in him but now I am so heart, so sick, don't know what to do with two school going kids, can't forgive him. I know I should have left him a long time ago but I didn't have the courage....I feel I don't know how and where the time has gone...don't know where to begin...Pls help... ,