Hi
I'm new here so not sure if this is the right place to post or not.
I'm currently 37 weeks pregnant. And been with my partner 35 weeks! (Yep sounds great!)
Obviously we were getting to know each other and sleeping with each other and although using contraception I fell pregnant, pretty quick. We obviously have been through a lot in these past weeks. Being a new relationship on top of pregnancy isn't exactly a walk in the park. But I've just come to realise how possessive and controlling he actually is and I'm worried.
We moved in together 2 months ago. Things were ok at first. He had 2 children with his ex and I have 1 with mine and we both co-parent which we have found great!
But he is so unbelievably jealous of my ex it's unreal.
A couple of months ago he attacked me a few times through me messaging my ex about our son. I ended up with a cut to my leg and bruises to my arm where he had grabbed me. He stole my car, house keys and phone on numerous occasions so I was stranded. One time whilst I had my 2 year old son with me. I had to get a taxi to my exes house to drop my son off with him as I felt he was in an unsafe environment. Despite all this, and there being a baby involved we (kind of) made up.
Today I found out he stole my old phone, charged it up and took it to work with him to then go through private texts between me and my ex (these texts where from when I didn't even know him!) and now he's questioning me about them.
He blames me for absolutely everything, that it's all my fault. Then all of a sudden cries that he will never do it again.
When is enough enough!? I shouldn't be put through this at 37 weeks pregnant. I literally have nowhere else to turn and not sure what I should do.