What is love...

[jazaya]

I met my wife 10 years ago and am know going through a divorce...I always say she loved than and not know how can I bring a spark.. and we have 3 kids.. any advice please

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Lol at TheMonkeyMummy

I read your other post in Divorce. Your wife is leaving after 10 years and says she's fallen out of love. You asked on there how you could 'make' her love you again. I'm so sorry this has happened to you but basically you can't. It's awful and bewildering and makes you feel utterly powerless in the most basic foundational thing in your life but there is little you can do to change it. If she was saying I'm leaving because you behave in X way then maybe you could look to change that bit if it's a very common, 10 year itch or boredom or just her changing over time as a person all you can do is take your time to get used to it and prioritise helping your children to do likewise. Get some legal advice and start thinking about what sort of arrangements will work going forward. Good luck. And hang in there, it will get better.